In the book of John chapter 11:35, you maybe wondering why Jesus wept instead of raising Lazarus from the dead instantly.

Well, It is a sign of affection Jesus have demonstrated unto us in that scenario, He didn't come like a Super hero and command Lazarus to come out in a jiffy.  Instead He wept and was emotional 
Then said the Jews, Behold how he loved him! John 11:36.
John 3:16 made us to understand that. 
For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
We should know deeply that God is love and everyone of us is expected to follow this path of love in showing affections towards ourselves as we have decided to follow Jesus.

This part of the scripture, Jesus wept really shows the kind of affection Jesus have towards us His beloved ones, To God be the glory, Hallelujah.

Why not follow Jesus who loves you instead of staying out of love, Remember either you are for Jesus or you are against Him. Look at Satan, He never wept, instead He is moving to and fro looking for whom to devour.
Be sober, be vigilant; because your adversary the devil, as a roaring lion, walketh about, seeking whom he may devour: 1 Peter 5:8
Someone looking for whom to devour is not a man of love. He is a devil.
Follow Jesus and be a man of love.

Key Note:
Jesus have demonstrated love by weeping over Lazarus death.
We should also have the same affections towards ourselves.
Rejoice with them that do rejoice, and weep with them that weep. Romans 12:15.
This bible passage is a sign of love. When people around you are weeping and you are rejoicing. It is not love. When they rejoice and you are weeping, it is not love.
To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven:
Ecclesiastes 3:1
Let love occupy your heart, and you will let God dwell in you.

In Conclusion:
And we have known and believed the love that God hath to us. God is love; and he that dwelleth in love dwelleth in God, and God in him. 1 John 4:16